You have probably cried out for help when you feel that you are left with the burden of saving your relationship all alone. You are not the only people who did that as alot of people have done that. Sometime, life gives you a situation wherein you try to fix the gap you have with your partner. You try to mend things and restore the kind of relationship you want.
This kind of circumstance is not ordinary. It requires you to be physically and emotionally tough. You become a better person. You think things more mature. The best cure for the heartbroken soul is to find the cause of the problem. Rather than denying the reason, you should learn from it and move on. Don't say that you can't do it. If you don't, you will be committing the same mistake over and over again. Learn from the past mistakes and don'thead to that same path again. Nonetheless, here's how you can possibly fix things with your partner. Make a run through on yourself and your relationship. Assess the good and bad qualities that you have. Identify the things that you lack. Maybe you weren't spending much time with him anymore.That probably has ticked him off. Have you, in any way, done something destructive that could have hampered the relationship? Try to determine those things and ask yourself if you are willing to change things and get rid of the bad qualities you have. The change may not happen overnight but you can commit to slowly changing. |
Once you have realized the reasons hat strained the relationship, what you need to do is to learn from it and accept that you also made a mistake. You had your shortcomings. Invite your partner for a sit-down conversation. Grab that opportunity to be able to ask forgiveness and explain your part. Don't raise your tone and be honest. Verbalize your feelings and concerns and at the same time, listen to his side.
It requires great listening skills to be able to succeed in reconciling with him. When he says things that you don't want to hear, stay calm and maintain your composure.Give him some respect because it is his opinion. Once you have gotten that talk, let time heal your relationship. Give him some space and time to think about what both of you have. Love can work in surprising ways. Problems in a relationship will arise but don't weaken right away. Be strong and be mature enough to handle the situation. The problems will only make bothof you stronger. Who knows, maybe both of you will live happily ever after. |